{"id":143,"date":"2015-07-09T23:09:53","date_gmt":"2015-07-09T23:09:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/?p=143"},"modified":"2015-07-09T23:09:53","modified_gmt":"2015-07-09T23:09:53","slug":"tij-blog-post-james-gilliard-the-faceless-mob","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/09\/tij-blog-post-james-gilliard-the-faceless-mob\/","title":{"rendered":"TIJ Blog Post &#8211; James Gilliard: The Faceless Mob"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/fm.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/fm.png\" alt=\"fm\" width=\"225\" height=\"225\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-144\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/fm.png 225w, https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/fm-150x150.png 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>While there will always be struggles on the course, what bothers me even more is this one I have off the course.  Because of my vision issues, facial recognition is extremely hard for me.  Not just recognizing someone that isn\u2019t family or a close friend that I haven\u2019t seen frequently, but also putting a name to that face.  There are a few exceptions to this \u2013 but those people have distinctive characteristics that makes them really easy for me to pick out.<\/p>\n<p>What\u2019s even more frustrating is that while I couldn\u2019t pick someone out of a crowd, once I know who they are, I can remember the most esoteric things and have a great conversation with them.  No, I\u2019m not Rainman; and no, I don\u2019t have a photographic memory \u2013 just a really good one.  Here\u2019s an example of what I mean, and one that anyone can verify:<\/p>\n<p>The last time I was on Kanapali Beach (Maui, HI) was 1991.  Either the Shearton or the Westin is directly next to Whaler\u2019s Village (and the other is about a \u00bd mile down the beach).  As you entered Whaler\u2019s Village in 1991 from that hotel, the museum was off to the left and a little booth that sold oysters with pearls was to the right.  The back corner on the left-hand side was a local muffin\/coffee place, their regional drug store chain and a book store.<\/p>\n<p>My point with all of the above is that almost 25 years later, I could probably draw you a map of how Whaler\u2019s Village looked, but if I don\u2019t see you frequently, I can\u2019t pick you out.  Why this is so f\u2019ing frustrating is that there are SO many that have and continue to help me through this journey.  I don\u2019t see some of these people constantly, and so when I do, I feel bad that I can\u2019t recognize them.  Just one example is Art Black of Oswego Cyclery, whose generous lending of the tandem has been HUGE.  I honestly couldn\u2019t pick him out the last time we were in the store \u2013 so frustrating.<\/p>\n<p>So the bottom line here is this.  If you recognize me, but I don\u2019t recognize you, please re-introduce yourself.  It\u2019s not that I\u2019ve forgotten who you are \u2013 just my eyes have.  And while it\u2019s a struggle, it\u2019s something that I\u2019m continually working on.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>While there will always be struggles on the course, what bothers me even more is this one I have off the course. Because of my vision issues, facial recognition is extremely hard for me. Not just recognizing someone that isn\u2019t family or a close friend that I haven\u2019t seen frequently, but also putting a name &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/index.php\/2015\/07\/09\/tij-blog-post-james-gilliard-the-faceless-mob\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">TIJ Blog Post &#8211; James Gilliard: The Faceless Mob<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[66,67,7],"class_list":["post-143","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-james","tag-faceless-mob","tag-facial-recognition","tag-james-gilliard"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/143","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=143"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/143\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":145,"href":"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/143\/revisions\/145"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=143"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=143"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nocrappyexcuses.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=143"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}