
(Photo courtesy of Shining Star staff)
“Pay your dues, and your debts.” – Dave Matthews Band
This is one of the few blog posts that’s not specifically an athletic blog. But it has a tie in…
In the late 1980s and early 1990s, the Blue Star Network was extremely strong where I lived and in the surrounding towns. For those of you who aren’t aware of what it was, the short version was the people would sign up as a “safe harbor” and put a blue star in their window to signify that. Then if you were being abused or in trouble, you could go to one of those houses.
I believe that this network made it easier for my parents to give me some of the freedoms I did at the time. This meant a lot of going to soccer practice/games and some Little League games on my own. I am also fairly certain that without it, my parents would not have allowed me to be delivering the paper or collecting for it on my own in the early 1990s.
Roughly thirty years later, I happened upon Shining Star through their Jail and Bail fundraiser. While it didn’t work to participate in 2023, I did in 2024.
When I was unable to make my “bail” in 2024, I was more disappointed that I had been about not making any other fundraising goal. The simple reason was that I knew how much every dollar I was unable to raise could have helped. Because of scheduling conflicts, I was also unable to make it to Dixon to “surrender” after not making my “bail”.
So when 2025’s fundraiser was announced, my goal was to “make up” for what I hadn’t raised in 2024. Apparently I have friends and family that really want to see me in jail, as offering to “serve time” in Dixon led to some sizable donations. So on May 1st, I headed down to Dixon.
After the photo shown above was taken, I started pushing it out (social, texts, etc.) While I didn’t reach my “bail” for the second year, I was eventually let out… But during my time there, I had a chance to talk with Jessica (their Executive Director). I learned a lot more about Children’s Advocacy Centers (CACs) and Shining Star as a whole.
As such, I now realize how crucial support is for the CACs in the smaller counties. Lee and Ogle Counties (which Shining Star serves) together are about 55% of the size of the town I live in. This means that fundraising is crucial to ensure that they can continue to provide services to the children who need it.
Please consider supporting my fundraiser ()http://tinyurl.com/jgss25 or donating directly to Shining Star ()https://shiningstarcac.com/support-us.
I will be continuing to participate in this fundraiser as long as it continues. It’s a fun way to help so many, and to help repay a debt of safety I had so many years ago.